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Offering heart-centered end-of-life education, guidance, planning, and preparation.

MARIN & SONOMA COUNTY HOSPICE AND PALLIATIVE CARE NURSE AND END-OF-LIFE DOULA

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Hi, I’m Melanie Sheaves—The Death Whisperer. I’m a Registered Nurse (RN, BSN), Certified Hospice and Palliative Nurse (CHPN) and end-of-life doula.

I am devoted to walking alongside individuals and families through the profound experience of dying. My work is rooted in both professional training and deeply personal experience.

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I’m here to support you in meeting mortality with clarity, compassion, and a sense of peace.

Whether you’re preparing for your own death, caring for someone you love, or curious about what it means to die well, my work offers calm, meaningful education rooted in real-life end-of-life care.

"In preparing for death, we awaken to the gift of life."

Through educational courses, workshops, and advising, I offer not just services — but companionship.

You don’t have to walk this path alone. I’m here to support you and your family with honesty, tenderness, and care.

End-of-Life Advising

Personalized, one-on-one guidance to help you explore options, clarify wishes, and feel supported as you make thoughtful end-of-life decisions for yourself or a loved one.

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End-of-Life Doula Services

Personalized, one-on-one guidance to help you explore options, clarify wishes, and feel supported as you make thoughtful end-of-life decisions for yourself or a loved one.

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Resources

Personalized, one-on-one guidance to help you explore options, clarify wishes, and feel supported as you make thoughtful end-of-life decisions for yourself or a loved one.

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Education

Personalized, one-on-one guidance to help you explore options, clarify wishes, and feel supported as you make thoughtful end-of-life decisions for yourself or a loved one.

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Testimonials

  • Melanie’s presence brings instant comfort and serenity. Combined with her expertise and experience, you know you’re in the best hands. During the most difficult time in my life, Melanie was there with wisdom and compassion. I couldn't have asked for more. My family and I are forever grateful for the grace and care she offered during this challenging period.

    — Stacy C.

  • Melanie gave our family kindness and professional guidance to help our family through a very difficult period. Melanie is dedicated and caring and provides structure to a confusing and overwhelming time of life. We are forever grateful.

    Linda K.

  • There are not enough words to express my sincere gratitude for all of Melanie’s love, care, and support provided for our family. Melanie is not only an amazing nurse but an even more amazing human. Melanie has such a gift for how to care for people at such a vulnerable and scary stage of their lives. I hope Melanie knows how much she helped us through the worst time of our lives. Thank you does not seem to be enough.

    - Michelle M.

  • Melanie is a true blessing and made the process easier for all of us. Thank you for everything.

    -Mary N.

Let’s Connect

If you’re feeling uncertain, overwhelmed, or simply curious about how education and preparation can bring more peace to the end of life, you’re welcome to reach out.

This is a space for thoughtful conversation, gentle learning, and beginning exactly where you are.

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